#1 There’s no ‘right way’ to have sex
Many think sex is vaginal penetration with a penis. Queer sex is proof that you can throw that script out the window. A cunnilingus or blowjob session can lead to explosive orgasms, so why make penetration the main event?
#2 Your gender doesn’t define whether you’re ‘submissive’ or ‘dominant’
Straight men are expected to be more ‘dominant’ during sex, with anything different being treated as kink. Instead, think about how you enjoy expressing yourself in bed without having to fulfill any expectations.
#3 Toys, gadgets, and gizmos are your friends.
Lesbian folks are often asked:don’t you miss dick? Cringe aside, sex sans penis doesn’t mean you have to skip the penetration — there are dildos for that! Beyond replacing body parts, toys, lubes, and accessories can elevate sex to a whole new level.
#4 Sexual desire doesn’t look the same for everyone
Sexuality exists on a spectrum. That isn’t just relevant to the gender(s) that attract you, but alsohow you experiencethat attraction. Straight men can enjoy anal penetration and still be straight, while straight women don’t always have to desire penetration.
#5 The secret to mind-blowing orgasms: KNOWING YOUR STUFF.
Queer vulva owners aremore likely\xa0to orgasm during sex than their straight counterparts. But sexual orientation doesn’t define how likely you are to give or experience an orgasm;knowledgedoes. Take time to learn what your partner needs and wants for a pleasurable experience.
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